Let me take you back to 10 years ago. I was 40 years old. I had been married to a stranger for 18 years. We had nothing in common, except 3 kids. We were not compatible. We were so different. we didn’t jive on anything, even picking a restaurant or movie, not to mention making parenting decisions.
My life wasn’t going anywhere. I felt trapped in a cage of pseudo security and status quo. After more than six years of trying to fix my marriage with no success, I viscerally felt my internal flame dying out. I had lost passion. I had no direction. I felt lost and confused. It seemed that everyone around me had more confidence, happiness and purpose. I was desperate.
Then one day, while walking in the woods, it suddenly hit me:
My reality was so different from what I had envisioned as a young woman. It was unbearable and I didn’t know what to do about it. Except I knew that if I didn’t leave this misery I was going to die inside.
I could see a vision of my inner flame like a Bunsen burner that had been turned down so low that it was almost dying out. This image was imprinted on my brain. I knew that I had to find a way to turn up that inner flame before it was permanently extinguished.
Making this huge change, with three kids ages 8-15, was a big deal. I was scared to move forward – but more afraid I might not be able to get me back if I didn’t.
Fast forward to today. I am happily married to the love of my life. He’s everything I’ve always wanted in a man and a life partner, and so much more. Together we raise 6 children. We are on best and most possible amicable terms with our exes. Our kids have the support they need. We enjoy a vibrant, healthy and abundant lifestyle. We travel a lot internationally. We created a beautiful home together. And while life throws us challenges, we always embrace them as new ways to grow and expand even further. To boot, I’ve expanded my nutritional consulting to address the hunger for passion that I’ve witnessed in so many of my clients and have created Desire on Fire™ to address the entire woman. What all my clients have in common is that their lives look and feel nothing like when we first started out.
When I think back to where I was less than ten short years ago, I couldn’t even comprehend how amazing life could be. The reality that I now call my everyday life wasn’t even in my wildest dreams. When I actually dared to dream out loud and follow my desires, is when they lead me to the life I live today. To think that I could have let fear stop me making the leap, breaks my heart.
That’s why I’m on fire to ignite women whose inner passion is at the verge of vanishing. I turn women who are stuck in self doubt and lack of self worth into extraordinary women leaders, living their greatest potential and changing the world while they’re at it, including their families.
Your journey doesn’t have to be as arduous and long as mine. I figured out the shortcuts to get there with more ease and grace than me. I know that we all need someone to hold onto the “vision” for us, especially during times when we lose sight. There certainly have been days in my life when I have been lost – when I felt that no one understood or could help me.
I’ve walked this path, and am the ideal guide to help you walk yours. I will be compassionate, but I will not allow you to wallow. I will keep you safe and on your toes. If you want to go from the life you have today to the life you so desperately desire, this is your moment to leap.
You’re worth it. Let your dreams and desire show you the way.