I’m Sooo Excited to Share This!

In my ongoing effort to bring something interesting, fun and new to the Desire on Fire community, I am launching a video series.  Why?  Well,  I have always been fascinated with relationships, with a primary focus on women – what makes us tick, what makes us happy, what we can do differently or better.  Well,… Continue Reading

The Great Do Over

The Great Do Over

Do you ever have one of those fights with your partner that starts in a predictable way, and out of habit, you both resort to doing the same thing? Over and over again? Like in the movie Groundhog Day…?   It could be your mood, your partner’s mood, a trigger (more on that in my… Continue Reading

I Can’t Believe How Traveling is Like Dating

I Can’t Believe How Traveling is Like Dating

This past week, my daughter and I were visiting colleges in Colorado, in Boulder and Fort Collins to be exact. We had read that Fort Collins recently had two students awarded the Truman Scholarship and we were anticipating our visit to both schools with excitement.   For those of you who are not familiar with… Continue Reading

Phantom Dreams

Phantom Dreams

I woke up suddenly in the middle of the night,  startled by a dream that my husband was cheating on me.  In the dream, we were at a conference, and the woman he was having the affair was there too. For some reason, he ended up moving his seat and she wound up next to… Continue Reading

I Almost Quit

I Almost Quit

I was so discouraged last week. I actually decided to quit my business. Yep!  Throw in the towel and walk away.  My upcoming Magical Mystery of Men program was not getting participants and was only a few weeks away from starting. I hated marketing more than ever! I felt rushed, was pushing too hard, and… Continue Reading

Magical Mystery of Men

Magical Mystery of Men

Every time I tell a man that I believe men are magical and that they just want to make women happy and we simply don’t know how to let them, I see their whole body language change – they stand up taller, smile, lean forward, get animated, etc…  It is amazing to watch and I… Continue Reading

An Interesting Perspective

An Interesting Perspective

A few months ago, I walked into a local art gallery and was mesmerized by a painting on the wall (all my husband could say was “uh oh”).  It literally seemed to call to me, to the point where I knew it was coming home with us.   Of course, the photo does not do… Continue Reading

I Have a Desire…

I Have a Desire…

I have a desire and I was wondering if you could help me with it? But first I wanted to check in and see if you enjoyed the 10-second kiss challenge?  I would love to hear if you did it and what you discovered through doing it.  In fact the first person that responds will… Continue Reading

Looking Forward Not Back

Looking Forward Not Back

I could start this blog apologizing for being virtually non-communicative last year, but I am not going to do that.  Suffice it to say 2016 was a very difficult, yet transformative, year for me and as a result, the way I see things.  I needed to lay low, to first grieve and then mourn, and… Continue Reading