Desire on FireBlog
Welcome to the official Desire on Fire blog!
Here, we post about upcoming events, share juicy stories and good news, and provide companion posts for our podcast.
Enjoy!
Our first blog post, and Aimee’s first sexual experience with a woman!
Why it feels important for Aimee to share about her first sexual experience 1:1 with a woman; This new experience brought up so many questions and curiosities for her, and it felt important for her to process it.
If you know me or have been following me at all over the years, you probably know: I’ve always been into men sexually, but not really women.
Getting through hard times, embracing sobriety, and finding your deepest desires with with Paige Wilhide
In this conversation, Paige and I talk about the reckoning and awakening that brought her to her knees and landed her in Bali — and what she discovered about healing, genuine sisterhood, letting go of external validation from men, and the beauty in the mess.
In this conversation, Paige and I talk about the reckoning and awakening that brought her to her knees and landed her in Bali — and what she discovered about healing, genuine sisterhood, letting go of external validation from men, and the beauty in the mess.
All the juicy details of Aimee’s 7-day couples’ Tantra retreat with Alex Waters!
When I heard my friend Megan talking about the possibility of attending a Tantra retreat for couples with her husband, I immediately felt the fire of desire burn in my belly. The absurd part is that I am not in a relationship, and this retreat was for … couples.
Here’s the deal, though: I’ve learned that things that seem like obstacles aren’t really obstacles if we’re listening to and trusting our desire.
So I didn’t let the fact that I didn’t have a partner stop me. (Not much does when I have a strong desire 😉).
What Does It Mean to Truly Love Your Body? Getting Honest About the Light & Shadow of the Body Positivity Movement, with Rinsha Ballani
Is it possible to truly, genuinely, passionately love your body, AND also want to change it?
Does desiring change mean you don’t fully accept your body?
In a cultural movement that’s all about cultivating self-love, it can actually feel weird and shameful to want to change our bodies — whether it’s by losing weight, gaining weight, working out, cosmetic procedures, or plastic surgery.
Ellie Shares Her Amazing Birth Story!
Waiting for Bear’s arrival involved months of preparation for Ellie and her husband Rob. They had a plan for a natural birth at home, including hiring a midwife and doula, taking special birthing classes, and creating a birthing plan (complete with playlists!).
Then … the birth happened. And Bear, it seems, definitely had some different ideas about how and when he wanted to arrive in this world.
We talk a lot about surrender in this work — that sacred way we know we can trust what the Universe is up to and can trust our intuition and desire along the way.
And sometimes surrender feels easy and amazing … and at other times, it is a deep spiritual (and literal!) labor.
Want More “Yum” in Life? Try Cyclical Living + Doing Less, with Kate Northrup
Our guest in today’s podcast, the amazing Kate Northrup, offers a challenge: When you look at the natural world, what do you see? You see cyclical living, not linear living.
Everywhere — literally everywhere — it’s circles and cycles. Nothing moves or evolves in a straight line. Seasons, growth, our bodies, night and day, birth and death, the weather.
Need Help Connecting With Family + Friends This Holiday Season? Our Top Tips to Deepen Communication & Spark Intimacy!
Whatever your Holiday tradition, chances are that it will involve some kind of gathering with family or friends.
And if you’ve ever had the experience of wishing you could connect more genuinely with people in your life … but you don’t know how to make that happen … then today’s blog post is just for you!
We’ve got mindset tips to keep you grounded, and we’ve got 5 simple, fun games you can play to invite people into deeper conversations that will actually help you get to know one another and connect on a real level.
